The 'Ro' method
If you can fix the thing that worries you, then fix it; otherwise do not waste precious time or energy on it.
According to the Ro method, there are only
two options for any type of problem
life brings about:
a) we can either do something about it, or b) we cannot. Once you learn to make this distinction, you will stop fighting to change things that cannot be changed - or do not deserve your limited Time and Energy. Stop over-analysing and complicating things. Things are simple. The figure and the table below schematically present the Ro method for dealing with ANY type of problem. |
For more information, the related form, and practical examples read chapter 8 in Idiots are invincible